Wednesday, June 30, 2021

Mind Your Dayum Business

Good Afternoon Beloveds

How many of you only visited this post because you thought there was some drama? 😼😼😼😼

I do have a rant to share though.

Hey Y'all, if you live anywhere remotely close to me...is the humidity on your nerves, too? I couldn't sleep soundly, I had to get up and turn my fan on for added measure. 

Since I was up, I figured I would get online for a bit. I didn't post the other day. I was trying to see how it felt to have two non-social media interaction days. I actually forgot and had to put my phone down.

So I post a clip on TikTok today, once I came across the audio for the second time. If it has not been myself, there have been people in my circle making time in the lives for people that don't like them. I often tell my friends, if someone says something to you about me...don't tell me, just handle it according as my friend. It isn't my business what they say about me. If they wanted me to know, they would have come to me with it. Nine times out of ten, if they know of my existence to speak of me, they know how to contact me and speak directly. I posted this lines to the right yesterday, after shouldering a friend. She was allowing herself to get upset about someone she doesn't engage with throwing dirty on her name because she doesn't engage with them. I asked her what does that take from her and why is she letting it take any thing from her? I speak often on the saying, 'I am not in competition with anyone, other than the person I was yesterday.' Now the less mature or educated, etc. always take offense to this. Saying things like, ' you aren't on my level to compete with me or not of the caliber.' The simple fact you respond like shows I am not on your level or of your caliber, because I am above it. I don't have time nor will I make time to keep up with the Jones. I am not trying to out do anyone for attention. Only trying to do me on my terms. 

So after we had a 'remember who you are' talk, she was realigned and I decided to share the energy as I did. I know some folk really get in a bind when someone has no concern for their views of them, I feel sorry for them. Generally, those people are living their lives for the approval rating of someone outside of themselves. I am posting this on the fly, because I need to get back to bed. Forgive the typos, etc. It will give those folk something to focus on, other than the message.


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